FEELINGS

Our mind is the playground, which often turns into a theater or a battlefield. How strange is this world? We all live in the same area, same environment, yet are different from everyone. That’s the nature of this nature. We all being different are same, yet different. It’s the nature’s creation, that we are made to think in a more different way than the others, but when we work together, though not forcibly, sometimes we think the same as others, not because that we just live closer and think similar, but also sometimes that we like the other’ feelings and thoughts which make us take hasty decisions sometimes. This is evident that many judgments, be it by the court of law, or by us, go biased because of these kinds of feelings. What are these feelings? Where do they originate? Why does it show a kind of happiness as well as gloomy sometimes? On whom does this originate? Why? Why? Why?

The reason being that, our heart always tends to fine a soul that’s close to us, that listens to us, although we may have many / few friends or close-ones with whom we reveal those things, yet, we will not reveal the entire truth to them, may be because our heart has the insecurity of loosing that friend. So, generally we tend to reveal the most basic truths of our life to the unknown people that to the trusted ones or with those with whom we confide generally.

Now coming to the point as to why we feel the comfort for others. It can be either because of some of our feelings that match with that of others, or, that others respect our feelings or prevent the dent that might happen or is happening, or for the reason that we respect the person, and for that reason we have a good feeling towards others.

Why do some people not tend to confide at all? It could be because that they are scared of the feelings of others, or that they don’t believe in others helping then in those kind of situations, or that they feel others too uninformed to help them. They feel insecure in front of others, or feel that others may take an undue advantage of them.

There are some who r very cold. In the sense that they don’t at all reveal any feelings, or react to any feelings of others. They don’t have an exact reason for their unique behavior. They suffer from within, but at any cost don’t reveal their inner-self to others. Some feel that it’s a jolt to their prestige.

Why do we feel the chucking, or the tickling of the senses, when we meet people who are close to us? It’s because that our heart always expects something good out of them. We at no cost don’t want to harm them, who care for us. But sometimes why do we tend to scold the ones with whom we are to share our pretty thoughts, it’s because that we take them for granted and as if we have total rights over them. But this is always mistaken as it’s not expressed correctly. Relations are very sensitive and fragile. It can last for a generation, or not even for a day. We must carry on the warmth that’s there in the feelings and enjoy the relationship, and even try to understand the relation that’s at stake.

Why do we have the feeling of our-people, our-land, our-work …, its because that we would have put all those things in a sweet dreamy world that we would have built it for ourselves and for our comfort, and see to it that no one barges into our safe territory. It’s these feelings that keep the relations intact, and help for the development of the self, and for the benefit of others. These are very prized things, which must be taken care of. Feelings originate at heart, and are tender feelings, that must be nurtured well. A secret that goes behind the curtain is that because of the positive and similar vibrations that surrounds the person, or the place, or be it anything. Why do we feel that let this be my home, let this be my tool. Let this be my place… its all not just because that we like it, but also because that these kind of feelings will be radiating the positive vibrations, and when we encounter these situations, that would have formed a picture before, turns to a reality now. It’s these vibrations also decides the nature of your work, or how you would be with this. Though feelings and vibrations are different entities, they all end up with the same thing finally. Feeling is like the fruit, and the vibrations are the sweetness / taste you’ll be expecting in it. It could be very sweet, or little sweet, or even sour. Feeling in whatever you do, adds that extra sweetness that really improves the taste u wanted. These feeling makes us jump in joy, and also make us weep. Without them, man is a stone. Expressionless. Heartless. It’s with this, that joy comes around you in your life.